Shifting the centre of my thinking
Hello, thanks for stopping by my blog.
I don’t know how you see cooking but for me, as a single household, I’ve spent a lot of years seeing ‘real’ cooking as the cooking I did when I entertained family and friends.
I saw this as my chance to try all the wonderful, real recipes I’d read in the endless pile of cookbooks that sit beside my bed. It was the time I saw myself as a ‘real’ cook, making proper meals and glowing with satisfaction as my friends and family enjoyed the fruits of my all effort. And I did make a big effort, beautiful food, great ingredients, the best china – all matching – and a table decorated with creative flair.
However if you dropped by on a weeknight, my cooking was not so grand, after all it was only me so why bother too much?
When I started to think about this, the truth was that I spent more time doing ‘why bother’ cooking than I did ‘real’ cooking. There were many, many more days of the week I cooked just 4Me than cooking for other people yet I showed myself so little respect.
When I read that 24% of Australian household were single person I realised I was not alone. And so began my journey to rethink the centre of my cooking world.
To explore the world of cooking for small households, to discover ways to experience the joy and satisfaction that I got cooking for others cooking just4Me.
I’ve thought about this a lot.
I’ve talked about this a lot.
And I’ve found that many other single households face similar challenges. Me being me I started to work out ways to meet these challenges.
I talked some more.
I thought more.
I shared more ideas.
And everyone said….’write your recipes down and please share them’… ‘but I’m dyslexic’ I cried. ‘I’m not good at writing”…. ‘we don’t care, share your recipes and ideas’
…so finally I am. Welcome to the new centre of my world – Cooking just 4Me.
Check out my first Progressive Ingredient story for six cooking just 4Me recipes that I’ve been cooking for me over the last few months.
I hope they bring you as much enjoyment as they have me.
Let me know if they suit your busy week.